Danielle shares her vision of a healthy relationship through the example of "building a house", including the "bedrock-Steps 1 -3", foundation-Steps 4-6", "walls/structure-Steps 7-9", and "roof-Steps 10-12." Each level of the house represents different levels of intimacy that coincide with ones own recovery level. Danielle goes through each level, asking the audience to shout out words that represent each level until the house is complete. Listeners can work along with the leader to create their own house and words that represent their understanding of each level. [At times it is hard to hear audience members, but what you can hear will add to ones own drawing/list of words.]